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4 saved incidents · organized for attorney review

4

messages documented

7

patterns identified

Mar 12· OurFamilyWizard

Manipulation disguised as cooperation

coercive framing

Look, I'm just trying to make this work for the kids. If you were really focused on what's best for them, you'd be more flexible with the sc…

Blame-ShiftingCoercive ControlSeverity 2
Mar 16· OurFamilyWizard

Boundary violation documented

refusal pressure

I don't think you understand how much say you actually have here. I make the decisions about the kids' lives and you can either work with me…

Boundary ViolationCoercive ControlSeverity 3
Mar 18· Text Message

Custody-related pressure identified

parenting time threat

I just want to remind you that the agreement says the kids need to be available for my calls every night at 7. I've been keeping a log of ev…

Coercive MonitoringLegal PressureSeverity 3
Mar 21· Text Message

Legal intimidation detected

court pressure

If you keep refusing to cooperate with the custody agreement, I'll have no choice but to take this back to court. Judges don't look kindly o…

Legal IntimidationBoundary TestingSeverity 4

Escalation Pattern

Frequency and severity are increasing over this period. This is a documented escalation pattern — share this timeline with your attorney before your next hearing.

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